my vday gift

V day is approaching .Many of us ,may have thought of making it special this time. Even though it really appears difficult in our institution , where boy to girl ratio is very high . still I appreciate this spirit But we can think or speak regarding love , that will be lot more easy and simple
Love, wiki say is intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. love can be happen to any thing including a power, nation, money ,person or any thing else. That is literary meaning of love. Well, I m focusing on interpersonal love .What in reality love is? numerous had already tried to explain it, here is my version.
Well love is feeling, which is driving everything in nature. Mainly at emotional level . It is something which makes us happy, delightful and extreme sad sometime. I will not look on it as analyst but way I believe.
Love is situation when you start seeing other welfare before yours .when u begin to concern for every second of other individual. It can’t be expressed by words to other individual and emotions need not to be told ,they must be felt. Because that is true nature of emotions . baby feels love of her mother without understanding a word. This is magical state where we just revolve around one epicenter and other individual become most important for us. i think we all had felt this once in life, ,we may deny it publicly ,but 90% of time it not true.
well viewing it merely among a boy and girl is disregard to love. It can be among any people. besides if you think genuinely, each one of us has felt this from parents. Infact someone has told once that ,pure love’s best example is, our relation with parents and sibling, in which we don’t require to express again -2, where by no means feeling of possessiveness, jealous ,insecurity came and where physical presence or non presence doesn’t have an effect on relation..
Love depends upon physical appearance? I don’t know. May be 5 -10% , however not absolutely. some one has truly said beauty lies in eyes of viewer. outward show might draw toward a someone primarily, what I don’t think relation move on that only .in lighter vein, it is always said love is dumb and blind so that also discard this grounds completely.
I wish to sum up by talking about a lighter case of love that I had found in college .you just say name of a person.. Your friends will start saying ,u like that person . initially you keep on denying and other keep on teasing and one day u feel you are in love . It seems to be unusual while listening, what unfortunately this is story of many people. Well this all I wish to say about love. Please express your ideas, I may be wrong at my points or I can gain more knowledge. And I dedicate this blog to all people around me who help me understand this in better way and all those people who kept patient to read my reflections and push me to inscribe further .at last a sher from one of my favorite Jagjit Singh ghazals about love

kisi wal akhiya majnu nu, tere laila dusdi kali be
some one said to majnu ,your laila appear dark
majnu ne jabab deta teri, akh na wekhan wali hai
majnu replies, your eyes don’t see it in right way
ved bhi chita,quran bhi chiti beech syahi rakh deti kali
pages of ved and Koran also white ,only they have black ink on it
ghulam farid jithe ankhian ladiyan, uthe kya gori kya kali be
when u falll in love, the colour doesn’t matter