my vday gift

V day is approaching .Many of us ,may have thought of making it special this time. Even though it really appears difficult in our institution , where boy to girl ratio is very high . still I appreciate this spirit But we can think or speak regarding love , that will be lot more easy and simple
Love, wiki say is intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. love can be happen to any thing including a power, nation, money ,person or any thing else. That is literary meaning of love. Well, I m focusing on interpersonal love .What in reality love is? numerous had already tried to explain it, here is my version.
Well love is feeling, which is driving everything in nature. Mainly at emotional level . It is something which makes us happy, delightful and extreme sad sometime. I will not look on it as analyst but way I believe.
Love is situation when you start seeing other welfare before yours .when u begin to concern for every second of other individual. It can’t be expressed by words to other individual and emotions need not to be told ,they must be felt. Because that is true nature of emotions . baby feels love of her mother without understanding a word. This is magical state where we just revolve around one epicenter and other individual become most important for us. i think we all had felt this once in life, ,we may deny it publicly ,but 90% of time it not true.
well viewing it merely among a boy and girl is disregard to love. It can be among any people. besides if you think genuinely, each one of us has felt this from parents. Infact someone has told once that ,pure love’s best example is, our relation with parents and sibling, in which we don’t require to express again -2, where by no means feeling of possessiveness, jealous ,insecurity came and where physical presence or non presence doesn’t have an effect on relation..
Love depends upon physical appearance? I don’t know. May be 5 -10% , however not absolutely. some one has truly said beauty lies in eyes of viewer. outward show might draw toward a someone primarily, what I don’t think relation move on that only .in lighter vein, it is always said love is dumb and blind so that also discard this grounds completely.
I wish to sum up by talking about a lighter case of love that I had found in college .you just say name of a person.. Your friends will start saying ,u like that person . initially you keep on denying and other keep on teasing and one day u feel you are in love . It seems to be unusual while listening, what unfortunately this is story of many people. Well this all I wish to say about love. Please express your ideas, I may be wrong at my points or I can gain more knowledge. And I dedicate this blog to all people around me who help me understand this in better way and all those people who kept patient to read my reflections and push me to inscribe further .at last a sher from one of my favorite Jagjit Singh ghazals about love

kisi wal akhiya majnu nu, tere laila dusdi kali be
some one said to majnu ,your laila appear dark
majnu ne jabab deta teri, akh na wekhan wali hai
majnu replies, your eyes don’t see it in right way
ved bhi chita,quran bhi chiti beech syahi rakh deti kali
pages of ved and Koran also white ,only they have black ink on it
ghulam farid jithe ankhian ladiyan, uthe kya gori kya kali be
when u falll in love, the colour doesn’t matter

STORY OF A CADET

I have been away from REFLECTIONS for long time. Sorry for that. My friends say I always bring reason in favor of my mistakes; however I had still to choose explanation for his. The motivation which got me to write was interesting trip for NCC test known as bee certificate test, I m empathizing on bee because till yesterday I knew this as b certificate test only .It looks boring but I assure, u will definitely enjoy while u read.

We got information of this examination just 3-4 days back. This news shocked me and my friends. Since I haven’t done anything extraordinary or say ordinary in NCC till I had joined it. As a result it started bringing a little worry .But as usual my thoughts turn into action merely 6 hrs before the D day Panic started 6 in evening of Monday, as I had to prepare dress (u must know dress up one of the important part of NCC and ARMED forces), get proper haircut (lakshya movie kind feeling arrive each occasion you do that) and further study for test because it has both written and practical. So once my preparation started there was real confusion, in the midst of uniform to be collected from unknown sources (even though dress is provide my NCC office but I hadn’t got full uniform thus it has to be borrowed from other) which were yet to be identified .luckily I was able to do all this by 1 a:m .

That was preliminary part for preparation, real test was next day. we have to reach place named bilaspur which is at least 21/2 hour away from here by 9 a:m on Tuesday. So we have to get up early as 5:30 in morning, tough task for people like me, who find even harder to attend 8:30 class. Fortunately, I managed to get up with the help of two alarm clocks and my roommate. It looks in morning that nobody will go and we would even have a mass bunk for the examination .However everyone put their entire guts together to come out of their quilt in severe winter of Himachal Pradesh. Initial battle was won plus it was first time I got up so early in this New Year, We get ready by 6:30.and started our journey. Wearing NCC dress always fill me with pride as it take me back to school days. We were 18 cadets including 6 girls which comprise our captain vijendar, sirkreck, inderjeet, madhav, pankaj, vyom, and many more. Journey was usual apart from a few people who often have nausea while traveling in these crisscross himachali roads. Dawn looked beautiful with fog all-round and our cab going in between clear road. This atmosphere reminded me of Hindi movies particularly song”tumse hi” of jab me met movie. We reached there a bit late by at 9:10. Slight disappointment came, once we knew that test would start late because as it cost us our precious sleep. Real delight was that, we were among the front comers, well turned-out and look unique in crowd. Written test started at 10:20.test having two parts, one was mostly general knowledge where writing was easy while second part was complicated with topic related to navy. Notes given to us by our instructor came handy in that, moreover I was able to attempt paper sufficiently. In practical part somewhere our knowledge was not fine, although with help our skill it too went reasonable .After that, we had small parade and were free by 2 pm. We pleased with everything and had long photo session afterwards.

One thing, I didn’t put in the picture was that we hadn’t taken meal since morning .in fact we didn’t feel it necessary till test. However as we finished the whole thing, earliest thing which grabbed attention of every one was food. As a result in reverse journey foremost concern was to locate an appropriate place to have lunch. We continue selecting better places till appetite become intolerable. This lead to making decision of end searching furthermore, immediately we stopped our cabs at dhaba found next. Lunch was always going to be excellent in this state and each one ate to their full capability. Rest of reverse journey passed with sleeping and listening to songs of movie tere naam which were only song our cab driver listen. We reached back by 5:30, hence this all ended contentedly.

I wish to add few more lines that I had written this blog yesterday also, but my pc got hanged and all my work was lost. As a result I was reluctant to write all over again, but after my friend rahul gupta encouraged me. I consider of writing again. Special thanks to him and someone who always supports me whenever I got confused and get tired.

In next entry I will complete my story we win, where obviously we have won and ARPITA was operated successfully